Reaching 30!

Bismillah.

Hi everyone.

First and foremost, I would like to thank all of you for the kind words on my birthday; past 3 days. I really appreciate it and your words lit up my life just like the sun's rays. I feel blessed to have each and every one of you as family and friends.

Another number added to my age; means that I have to be more strong and tough to face what is coming up next since life will be hard from day to day, I have to be more matured in decision making since I can't only think for my own sake & benefit, I just need to be fair. Actually, there is a lot of things I need to change when I reached 30, but I need to be real, too. I have to jot down which one that I can do and can't.

The years have gone by so fast and Allah has blessed me with a wonderful family and friends. 

To my dearest parent, I have let so many years pass without thanking you both. But you haven’t let a single second pass without loving me unconditionally. I have never taken any compliments to heart because deep down inside I know that all of them actually belong to you both. Thanks for bring me to the world and raise me up. Thanks for listening to all my problems and giving good advises (eventhough I don't follow some of the advises).  Thanks for everything that I just can't list it all here, Mak & Abah.       

To my sisters and brother, thanks for always being there for me. You guys are awesome!

To my beloved husband & daughter, you both are special in every way, encouraging me more & more each passing day. You both are the reason why I’m so strong. Both of you helped me through many trials & tribulations; you’ve made things better in every situation. Thank you both for always being there, and showing me that you truly care. Words could never explain how I feel about you, but I hope you know that I truly love you two.

To all friends, please keep in touch even we are not so close before. I just want to be a better person with good relationship with all. If I've hurt you before, please forgive me. Friendship is too precious and priceless for me. Thanks for being one!

Till then.

XOXO,
sheayang

Tips Sebelum Tahun 2017

Bismillah.

Credit : FB Kerjaya

XOXO,
sheayang

Apa Yang Anda Boleh Lakukan Jika Ditahan Di Wad

Bismillah.

I was hospitalized last week due to reduce fetal movement and Urinary Tract Infection (UTI). 

Reduce fetal movement = Kandungan kurang gerak

Urinary Tract Infection = Kencing Kotor

Pengalaman pertama kena admitted semasa mengandung. Aku pergi menyerah diri kat hospital hari Selasa lepas waktu pejabat sebab dah terlampau risau dengan keadaan kandungan yang tak aktif sepanjang hari tu dan perut pun mengeras je rasa memang tak selesa.

Nasib baik sebelum pergi hospital, dah contact husband dulu. Sampai-sampai hospital, kena check up bagai, tengok phone 'No Service'. Cuak weh.

Dapat tau pula kena tahan dalam wad, bingung tak tau cara nak bagitau husband. Rupanya, nurse dah tolong callkan. Berhuhu la aku masuk kena tolak ke wad tengok husband dah tercegat kat katil. Fuh!

Bermalam di hospital sangat membosankan sebab kau cuma baring, tidur, duduk, makan sahaja. Buku/majalah lupa nak bawa. Tapi masa kat bilik check up tu nurse pesan jangan risau, banyakkan zikir, cakap dengan baby dan bermacam nasihat lagi. Alhamdulillah, I followed all. 

Mungkin sebab bekerja, aku tak ada masa sangat nak bercakap dengan baby compare masa mengandungkan Maryam dulu. Kesian baby!

Jadi, apa yang aku dapat simpulkan di sini, perkara-perkara yang kita boleh lakukan jika ditahan di wad adalah :

1. Jangan bebankan diri dengan apa yang tertinggal di rumah. Ini selalu sindrom mak-mak yang hadapi. Risau anak tak makan, tak mandi, tak tidur sampai sanggup tandatangan surat tanggung risiko. Aku pun sama hari tu, risaukan Maryam dengan nak call husband tapi line tak ada macam-macam benda dalam kepala otak sampai fikir baju kerja husband tak sempat basuh pun ada. Gila, kan?

2. Banyakkan beribadah, berzikir dan membaca Al-Quran. Bab ni pun memang mak sentap masa nurse pesan tu. Kita ni kalau sembahyang pun nak laju je, Quran pun jarang buka sampai berhabuk, ni masa Allah bagi kita rehat supaya ingat dekat dia. Rasa nak menangis masa tu dan cepat-cepat tengok phone ada lagi tak Quran Apps tu. Gigih malam tu baca surah Luqman, surah Maryam, surah Yusuf semua. :P

3. Bercakap dengan kandungan anda. Ni untuk ibu mengandung je la. Kalau bapa yang kena tahan wad tu, bercakap dengan kandungan lemak pun boleh. Mungkin bayi kita dalam tu letih/merajuk sebab kita tak layan dia. Bila ada masa, borak-lah. Time ni takkan ada orang mengata kau gila cakap sorang-sorang.

4. Mandi. Ada orang bila duduk hospital, malas nak mandi. Tahu tak mandi tu terapi air yang paling menenangkan. Sebab tu ada sesetengah budak suka mandi/berendam. Tapi janganlah sampai mandi 5-6 kali sehari pula.

Sekian.

XOXO,

sheayang